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Karen McRae's avatar

This is an excellent article. You have exposed the education system's "subtle blame" in a coherent, logical manner. Everything you have said makes sense. Some things inherent to humans and are just the way they are. I often think of the normal distribution and how all of humanity lies under this curve. If you have some people who find reading super easy (we don't have a name for these people as they don't pose a "problem" to the system), you're naturally and normally (!) going to have some people who have reading difficulties (dyslexia). Low and behold, this is quite normal and, you are so right, not preventable. It's part of the wonderful experience of being human.

Again, an excellent article. Thanks.

PS Thanks for reminding us of the story of The Ugly Duckling 🦢

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Yes! Focus on preventing poor instruction. That will help everyone - kids, parents, teachers, administration, schools, etc. b/c it’s really hard to tell why a kid is struggling if they’re not getting appropriate instruction to begin with. In the language for learning disability diagnosis, they tend to say “despite adequate instruction”

When my kid was struggling, someone said to me… some kids need “a little extra help.” I’m not sure that’s right. If they only need a little extra, that means something about the classroom instruction wasn’t working for them. In my experience, kids with disabilities don’t generally need a little more repetition and one on one guidance. They need different instruction, knowledgeable annd anccepting instructors, and alternate strategies.

The only piece of your writing here I contend with is “prevent the shame students feel by being labeled disabled”. I have almost the opposite problem. I had a hard time getting the school to acknowledge that my kid is disabled. And even with support in place, the school doesn’t accurately label his disabilities. And they use other, more common, disability labels instead. In many ways I think there’s way more dignity and power in naming the disability for exactly what it is. Ideally, I want my kid to confidently say I have xyz, I need xyz to be successful in this environment and move on with learning and being part of the school community.

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